Letters to me....Part 1
i feel so old writing letters to my younger self...but i always wanted to do it...always felt every experience taught me something...harsh or good...but a worthy lesson in the long run...
n if the lesson was too harsh i always felt if i would have listen to so n so person it would not have been this way...or all the signs showed me this is wrong n yet i kept doing it...i dont want to call myself a fool for listening to myself n doing what i did..because it was exactly what i wanted it then..so i try not to have regrets...just good lesson to learn from ....and yes i would like to add that just because i learned these lessons doesnt mean i follow them...lol :D but still good lesson worth mentioning....
One of my first lessons would be tat no matter what happens every phase in your life has a shelf period....its gonna pass...leave you with memories ...n those memories will be the outcome of how you dealt with that phase....let me give u an ex: a friend of mine had a lot of problems while she was in school...she thought she couldnt take it anymore...she did what normally people do when they want to give up...but thank god nothing happened to her n she had the brains to tell her close friends about what a mistake she did..and from that day she never had to think about giving up all that she had...it dint mean she dint go through her share of hardships but she had a better support system to deal with it..and now looking at the girl everyone just as one thing to say.... ' she turned out to be one of the most strongest girls we have seen..." and this is me...
Man/woman is a social animal,rite? we are always gonna make new friends n have old ones....n at every new stage of your life you are gonna meet such people who will impress you,shower you with attention,make you wanna hit them {i met a lot in this category ;) } ,
love you n be loved,and teach you something no one else could...but do not forget who you are amidst these people....keep in touch with the person who you really are...learn from others something that make you a better person but never at the cost of losing yourself...because at the end if you have forgotten the person you were, you are just gonna lose out on some precious time and have a feeling always that if i was myself would it be different..
" Ppl are alwez gonna have a lot of things to say...luckily we have the choice to listen to only those who matter :) "this is my recent facebook status...and thankfully i learned this a long way back...i have always been a girl following my own plans..not listening to what people have to say on it..because i always felt that its my life and whatever the consequences are gonna be im going to deal with them on my own..people are gonna talk either ways so let them talk after you did what made you happy :) and i am just happy that i always have been happy with this thought in my mind...
" Shut the gutter before its pollutes bad later " maybe this would sound opposite of what i have written above...but this is something that you need to do time to time...let no one take you for granted and say things that give a wrong notion out large to people...make yourself so strong and respectable that people will think twice before opening their dirty mouths and talk..not necessary you need to follow this always..because ,after all, talking is one of the important functions of humans and we shouldn't deny them that... :P
"Live with the reality but do not give up on your dreams because of them"
(continued later....)
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